Monday, January 20, 2014

Stand out from the Crowd















There are thousands, perhaps millions, of people in the world who need more fulfilling lives. They may be working hard every day at a job that they feel like they have to stick with because they need the money to pay their bills. They may be unemployed for any number of a thousand reasons and are on the verge of losing their place to live. They also may be a struggling internet or network marketer that is convinced that if they could just “figure it out”, then they could finally have that dream of financial freedom.

 So lets just say that you are a member of that last group. You have been working for months, perhaps years, on joining various companies and business opportunities with limited or virtually no success.You are running ads, writing blogs, creating sales web-sites, joining on-line business communities, and talking to everyone you know with no real success. What else can you do? Well folks, I’m here to tell you that the most important thing for you to realize is that you can NEVER GIVE UP ! You must continue to keep searching for the right strategy that will bring you some results. You must keep running those ads, writing those blogs, and continuing to network with anyone you can find that could help you create your first successful campaign. Once you discover that the pain of living your life the way it has been is far worse than the frustration, anxiety and hard work required to change your life, then, and only then, will you be on the road to success.

 So what can you do to have an advantage over the hundreds of newbie wannabe successful internet marketers that are competing for the same new customers that you seek. How can you stand out from the crowd and present yourself as someone that would be good to work with? Well the answer, my friends, is to slow down and relax. Forget about that fast “viral” you tube video that will start funneling thousands of dollars into your bank account overnight. Or that “get rich quick” scheme that you just heard about from the internet guru who has showed you his click bank accounts of $27,000 that he made just yesterday.

 What will work for you is the same method that has worked for successful networkers and salespeople for decades. And that is to communicate with one person and work on building a trusting relationship. Ask them what they want in their life. Ask them who they would like to become. Ask them what they would like to do and where they would like to go. Ask them what movies that like to watch, books they like to read, and music they like to listen to. Get to know them and tell them the same things about yourself. If you spend time doing this, then it will give far better results than any other activity you can do to help build your business. Become someone that truly cares about other people. By helping others succeed you will succeed. By mastering the art of relationship building, you will truly be well on your way to a fulfilling and joyful life.